In honor of Matt James’s season of The Bachelor, we’re taking a look back at the spin-off show’s biggest relationship successes. As expected, there aren’t very many Bachelorette couples who are still together, especially since Clare Crawley just called it quits with Dale Moss. *Wipes tear*

From Trista Rehn to Rachel Lindsay, keep reading for a complete list of Bachelorette couples who are still together.

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1. Trista Rehn & Ryan Sutter

From: The Bachelorette season 1

Together for: 18+ years

AKA the O.G. Bachelorette couple. They now share two children together: Maxwell (12) and Blakesley (11).

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2. Desiree Hartsock & Chris Siegfried

From: The Bachelorette season 9

Together for: 7+ years

There must be something in the Bachelor Nation water, because they also have two children: Asher (4) and Zander (1).

3. JoJo Fletcher & Jordan Rodgers

From: The Bachelorette season 12

Together for: 4+ years

Although they were supposed to tie the knot in 2020, their wedding plans have been postponed due to the coronavirus pandemic. Womp, womp.

4. Rachel Lindsay & Bryan Abasolo

From: The Bachelorette season 13

Together for: 3+ years

The pair tied the knot in 2019 in an intimate (non-televised) wedding in Cancun, Mexico.

5. Tayshia Adams & Zac Clark

From: The Bachelorette season 16

Together for: A few months

Tayshia Adams is engaged to Zac Clark, who she met on season 16 of The Bachelorette. They’re currently adapting to a bicoastal relationship as they plan their upcoming wedding.